Dear Single Sister In Waiting

Don't wait in vain, there's so much in you. Delve into the depth of your being and reach out for the best. In waiting for the right man, be the right lady Study a book, go for that seminar Work on your character Value small beginning Invest in that relationship Work on that career Build spiritual strength Never be in a hurry Ignore the pressures Read, Study, Grow Be excellent Get understanding Study your partner Build confidence Learn submission... very important Talk less and listen more Avoid gossips Mind your business Develop good relationship with your future family Please I beg you in the name of the Lord, learn how to cook. For crying out loud, learn how to decor your kitchen. Be a creative cook. Cooking is not all about Maggi and salt, it's about knowing when and how to put them. Cooking requires skill. Learn new ways of cooking food. Learn new recipes Take your hubby's tummy serious if you would want him to take your needs serious Learn to keep your kitchen clean Learn to keep your toilet clean; Extremely important Learn to keep your bedroom clean Learn table manners Learn how to respect your man That's his greatest needs not sex learn in silence Fight for what is yours but do it the right way Remember marriage is win win matter It will not always fall on your court. Remember, Your home is your making Take time to build your life before you enter. Know him enough. Don't rush your decisions Don't give excuses for him "Questions you have need to know the answers before going into any relationship" Hope he's the spiritual head of your life? Hope he believes in your dream? Hope he's supportive? Hope he loves the Lord enough to love you? Hope both of you believe the same truth about God and Jesus? Hope he's man enough to fight for you? Hope he's working hard for you? Hope you are not a careless talker? Hope you are not a lazy woman? Hope you are a strength to him? Hope you are rightly positioned in your proper role? Be the woman and always allow him to be the man. "Very important" Wear humility as a clothe, it's your bulletproof in times of misunderstanding. Be teachable Ask questions and never take laws into your hands. Learn in submission Never be a loud talker Dress moderate Dress confidently; first for yourself and then him Please stop all these Mama Iyabo; and Mama Ngozi matter Be civilised, Be informed, know a little about everything Never be a spendthrift, it's not attractive at all Learn how to achieve much with little, Your hubby will know that you _are a wise woman_ There's so much to learn as a single lady in waiting. Please don't waste your waiting period. Life's too short to spend it in constant agony, regrets, tears, visiting of prophets and seeking for solutions where there is none. Please be guided... #Copied